Thursday, May 17, 2018

5-Facts in the Christian Faith about relationships, if you don't agree with them, check your faith.







These facts are not equivalent to judgment because you can repent of your sins. These facts are not a 

hypocritical view of the author; facts are facts. If you claim to serve Jesus Christ, know that he is not 

the author of confusion and these are the facts (I Cor. 14:33).


Fact 1:

Women, if you think a man you’re dating is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with and you have sex with him before you’re married. It makes you a harlot paid or not. Maybe you need a softer phrase; you are practicing to be a harlot.

Fact 2:

Men, if you have sex with a woman and you are not married to her, it makes you a whore-monger. To soften the wording, it makes you an exploiter of women. 

Fact 3:

Men, if you have children with a woman and fail to provide for your children, it makes your children fatherless.

Fact 4:

Women, if you have children with a man and fail to be good mothers to your children, the children still belong to their fathers. (Note: children are their father’s seed.)

Fact 5:
If you cheat on your spouse, you are an adulterer/adulteress.


Reference: Google Image

Wednesday, May 16, 2018

Tips to look after your wife



(Another view concerning the extract of "Tips to look after your husband" from 1950 Home Economics books)
Provide the money for the cost of breakfast, lunch, dinner, dessert, and snacks
Know that your appetite cost a fortune, but remains affordable in the grocery store. Supply her with the money to grocery shop without the need of coupons, so she can prepare her family meal without stressing over the budget.
Keep your body fit and clean
Workout at the gym or take up a recreational activity that will decrease your stomach, strengthen your abs, arms, and thighs. She birthed your children and doesn’t want to see another oversized belly for the rest of her life. She doesn’t want your stomach size to limit her bedroom action.
Help with cleaning the home
Pick up after yourself and your kids. Clean the dishes since she cooked all the meals. Cut the grass and take out the garbage.
Be active in your children’s lives
Know where your kids are with their academics and where they need to improve. Visit your kids’ schools. Read a book to your kids. Play board games with your kids. Help with getting your kids in the bed by 8 pm every night. She will have more fun with you when the kids are asleep.
Spend time with your family and learn to laugh
Stop working so late all of the time. Take a family vacation and leave work at home.
Some don’ts
Don’t have a mistress/side chick/thot. Don’t complain about changes she made; instead, ask her why she made the changes. Her changes are to please you not to upset you.
Make her confident in you
Compliment her in front of others. Call her periodically throughout the day.
Listen to her
Be interested in what she is saying to you. Ask her questions about her topics.
Make weekend mornings her
She needs time alone to relax, pray, and meditate for the upcoming week. Give her time to herself away from you and the kids during Saturday mornings.
The goal
Try to make your home a place where she feels safe and supported while she works outside/inside the home assisting you to secure your family and home within an unstable economy.
References: Image belongs to Google: http://www.mindblowing-facts.org/2015/05/phrase-happy-wife-happy-life/